🚩 Red Flag Detector

Paste a message or conversation and let the Dezirez Dating Safety Coach identify positive signs, possible concerns and safer ways to respond.

Analyze a Conversation

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What It Looks For

This tool provides coaching, not proof that someone is safe or unsafe. Trust your instincts and avoid sharing money, passwords, verification codes, financial information or your home address.

Green flags
Respect, consistency, patience, healthy boundaries and honest communication.

Yellow flags
Pressure, inconsistent stories, excessive intensity or behavior requiring caution.

Red flags
Threats, coercion, financial requests, impersonation, isolation or serious boundary violations.